Voice of the rain

Even the voice of the rain is so soothing. It brings about a gush of happiness through my heart like the most awaited magic on earth has been awakened by the divine lords of love. I wonder where the cupid of Sunshine and Rain would have been formed without the presence of this wonderful spirit that embarks the lives of land and the hidden stories of the human mind..

Depression

There are various stages after which a person goes into  depression. 

The very first one is like a shock the person feels but he takes time to realize what happened and cry over it. He may cry for it after a year or so also..  Depending on when he realized what happened and how much it hurt him.. 

The second stage is where a person loses his patience. He starts crying and becomes very sensitive. He laughs but is broken inside and when u ask that person what is wrong he cries more.  But you should hear him out. He thinks of killing himself..  Let him speak understand him.. Because if u dnt do that then that person moves to the third stage. At this stage he feels every emotion a lot. 

The third stage is where a person starts forgetting stuff and loses himself completely. He tries to find happiness around him but if he does not then he moves to the forth stage. 

The forth stage is where the person thinks that now nothing else can be done. He doesn't think abt dying also. He gives up and just decides to live the life that destiny decides for him. He slowly starts to stop feeling stuff and also starts forgetting stuff so much that his past experiences are remembered as just fragments. He also gets frustrated easily in little things and get enraged and throws anger on people. 

If the person crosses all four stages he ends up in a closed place where he either needs a lot of care or he make take up wrong paths. 

The most important things that needs to be done during the above stages is

1) hear that person out patiently. Even if he was wrong earlier DO NOT BLAME HIM it will only make him go more inside the shell where he will get uncomfortable with you.

2) Do not give advices. Just tell that person that you will be there. It was the past LET IT GO. 

3) Do not tell them what to do and take care of the little things they like. 

4) lastly make them laugh a lot. Make their hearts smile and make them feel loved. 

The person may just be out of all the stages slowly if the above 4 are done. 

Note - A person can even directly enter any stage without going through the previous stages depending on the capacity of their minds to tolerate problems.

The thing written in my blog is my personal perception.

Just a maybe..

It was different from what i felt earlier. Sometimes he made me happy and made me fall in love all over again. His smile, his happy side i loved it. But still something seemed missing. Even though we were close it seemed like there was a distance between us which sometimes reduced but never ceased to exist. I feared losing him every time i felt happiness inside me because i knew he was the only reason for it. I wondered what he found in the darkness of night when he sat alone on the terrace. It was like he wanted to be alone even after my precence which he said, used to fulfill him from the inside. He used to always complete me and be more than i ever expected. But somewhere I always felt like I couldn't fill that part of him. Somewhere deep down he still seemed broken and that lively breeze he bought into my life is yet to come in his life. I didn't feel anymore like the angel of his dreams or the relief to his shattered soul. I felt just like an existence, like a shadow of his love. The girl he was supposed to love still didn't  seem to be here. I wondered what she looked like.? Would she be like the shinning diamonds or the mystical falls? Would her smile be enough to make him skip a heartbeat like he does to mine? Would she caress him and keep him in her embrace? Would her arms become his world of peace? The soul God has chosen for him would be divine like he is. I wondered if I am a little of what she would be... 

Life

Life is an amazing journey full of adventures and breath taking attachments. How those little tears sometimes break all of us and how tears of happiness heals all our wounds. We hate it one moment and love it the other. We complain sometimes and sometimes we find ourselves lucky. Things don't always turn out to be the way we want them to and people fight battles everyday. Some fight to live and others to die. How strange is it that we don't really value this wonderful journey we have become a part of. We know the value of it only when we see a little life taking birth in the arms of a mother. That day she gets a new life and we all value life. Then what happens when our minds fight with our hearts and expectations fight with relationships? Are they not a part of our lives? Days happen and so do nights, trees blossom and so does autumn, seasons change and flowers blossom but the nature doesn't cease to exist because it knows the importance of existence and the value it holds. So my dear friend live your life and love it. Know that you are important and live like you always wanted.

Change for the good

It is strange how most of the quotes we read these days tell us to not care about what people say.
It had always been easy to say things than to do it.
It is true that we shouldn't care about what people say otherwise we will end up hating ourselves.
I remember talking to one of my friends.
He had been new to Bangalore and people had always made fun of his English.
It was not that he wasn't talented, he had great business skills and his mind was really sharp.
Why people looked down on him was just because he had been educated in a place where even teachers weren't very acquainted with the language.
He used to wonder what was his fault in something like that.
He used to put his efforts and try learning and people never left an opportunity to disappoint him.
It gave rise to fire in him, to do something in his life.
He was fed up with being looked down on.
Maybe that's why people speak.
Maybe people speak so that some lives change for the good.
So that some souls and hearts are set on fire to achieve and succeed.
Thats one positive way we can use to look at things.

MEMORIES

When those beautiful eyes stare at a distance. Somewhere far away. When our sight has no bounds and we think about that one person who had once been our magnificent reality.

Our eyes glow with the love we had for them or maybe we still have it.

Those flashbacks of the paths we walked with them and the laughs we shared with them.

Those little things that we remember about them, their habits.

Those moments of complete bliss and those dreams which had once turned into reality.

The sound of their laugh and the pain in their hearts. 

That silence that talked.
And the love that glowed.
Those little worries and those little laughs which one day became closed pages of our lives and gave us Memories for a lifetime.

DREAMS

Some think of it to be the imaginations of the midnight where they are asleep. 
While some think that these are the places they want to reach.

The real ones are the ones we see with open eyes.

No its not day dreaming. It is like a beautiful place that we have created in our minds where we want to love and live someday.
Some dreams get a chance to live while others just break apart before coming to reality.

How strange it is that some people have their eyes shining with dreams in them while the others just hide themselves in the darkness.

How bad it is that some dreams are shattered and killed before someone tries for them.
As someone said “as a little girl/boy you saw some dreams, do not disappoint yourself.
Go for them.”